{"id":47,"date":"2005-12-26T21:00:30","date_gmt":"2005-12-26T15:30:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bauzon.ph\/cynthia\/?p=47"},"modified":"2005-12-26T21:25:04","modified_gmt":"2005-12-26T15:55:04","slug":"this-time-two-years-ago","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bauzon.ph\/cynthia\/this-time-two-years-ago\/","title":{"rendered":"This time two years ago"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" BORDER=1 color=\"#FFA36E\" src=\"http:\/\/www.bauzon.ph\/cynthia\/wp-content\/IMG_8803.jpg\" alt=\"wedding\" WIDTH=400 HEIGHT=270\/><\/p>\n<p>In a few hours my <a href=\"http:\/\/www.arnold-arre.com\">Arn<\/a> and I will be turning two, can you believe it?! (: It seems like it was only yesterday when I announced <a href=\"http:\/\/www.bauzon.ph\/cynthia2\/grey\/archives\/00000155.html\">our engagement<\/a>.<br \/>\n<br \/>\nNow that I&#8217;m about to enter my third year as a wife, I can tell you that married life has been nothing short of great. I always tell my husband that I can&#8217;t ever imagine not being married to him. Of course we know there&#8217;s still a great deal of learning to do but the wonderful thing is we can do it side by side. And like all happily-together couples say, a marriage is something you really, <i>really<\/i> have to work at continuously. Some people may make fun of him but Dr. Phil&#8217;s advice is nothing to laugh at:<br \/>\n<br \/>\n<span class=\"bodysmall\">*insert Letterman&#8217;s Dr. Phil theme*<\/span><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.drphil.com\/articles\/article\/142\"><i>&#8220;Wake up each morning and say, &#8216;What can I do today to advance the ball? Even small things will accumulate over time and make a difference.&#8221;<\/i><\/a><br \/>\n<br \/>\n<span class=\"bodysmall\"><i>And to my dearest Arn, I will never get tired of being married to you. Here&#8217;s to a happy forever. (:<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p>***<br \/>\nWhen we were still planning, the best advice we got was &#8220;The wedding will only last for a day. Focus on the marriage, it <i>should<\/i> last a lifetime.&#8221;<br \/>\n<br \/>\nIf you&#8217;re a bride-to-be though, it&#8217;s very tempting to start obsessing about the teeniest detail &#8211; say, the beadwork on the straps of your shoes? &#8211; that it&#8217;s easy to lose sight of what the big day is really about. Believe me, I know. It was only when my Arn said that he&#8217;ll marry me no matter what sort of plant life I&#8217;ll be holding or what color our aisle runner is (I made sure it was <a href=\"http:\/\/community.webshots.com\/photo\/112451371\/112525588RrLXUm\">blue<\/a> so it would go with our theme by the way) that I knew it was enough that I was marrying someone I had waited for all my life. From then on, I learned to let go of the small stuff&#8230; well ok, some of them. The morning of our wedding, I woke up not worrying if every topiary is in place but looking forward to the beginning of the rest of my life. My make-up artist <a href=\"http:\/\/202.163.220.134\/marie\/resume.htm\">Marie<\/a>, the first to arrive in my hotel room, told me &#8220;you look sooo refreshed!&#8221; soon as I opened the door which, I think, was the best compliment anyone who had just gotten out of bed can receive.<br \/>\n<br \/>\nPlease allow me to indulge but our wedding certainly turned out the way we wanted it to. What more can we ask for? Family, friends, and food &#8211; lots of it &#8211; were all around us as we began the journey of a lifetime. And because we want to share our joy with you, I compiled <a href=\"http:\/\/www.bauzon.ph\/cynthia\/?page_id=46\">a buffet of the entries I made leading to the big day along with pictures and information about the key players who helped make it happen<\/a>. 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